How to Deal with Drunk Clients

You arrive at a booking, dressed to perfection, expecting a smooth and enjoyable evening. But as soon as the door opens, you realise your client has had a few too many. Slurred words, clumsy movements, and an unsteady gait—what now?

Alcohol is often part of high-end experiences, whether it’s fine dining, exclusive clubs, or private celebrations. A little can help a client relax, but too much can turn a fun encounter into a difficult situation. As an escort, you are in control of how the evening unfolds. At Kings Lover, we prioritise your comfort and safety, ensuring that you always have the tools to handle any scenario with confidence.

This guide covers how to manage intoxicated clients, set boundaries, and exit a situation if necessary, keeping you in charge every step of the way.

Recognising When a Client is Too Drunk

Not every client who drinks will be a problem, but knowing the warning signs is crucial for maintaining a professional and enjoyable encounter. A client may be too intoxicated if they:

• Slur their speech or struggle to form sentences.
• Lose coordination, stumble, or knock things over.
• Show aggressive or unpredictable behaviour.
• Make inappropriate or disrespectful requests that wouldn’t normally happen.
• Have excessive emotional outbursts.

If a client displays multiple signs, it may be best to cut the booking short or handle the situation with extra caution. Our escort Nelly tells us of one drunk client: "If he can’t even find his wallet because it ‘disappeared,’ just assume his dignity went with it. Time to make a graceful exit."

If you’re looking for more advice, read our guide to what you should know before becoming an escort.

Setting Boundaries Early

The best way to avoid uncomfortable situations is to set clear boundaries from the start.

• Assess the situation upon arrival—if the client is already very drunk, consider whether to proceed.
• Be upfront but professional: A firm yet polite approach can prevent issues. Example: “I want us to have a great time together, but I need you to be respectful and in control.”
• Stick to your limits—if a client refuses to respect them, remind them of your professional standards.

Make sure to mention these boundaries if you notice your client is knocking back a few too many drinks during your date to avoid getting to the stage where they are too drunk. Try suggesting they switch to something non-alcoholic. This helps to subtly lead them in the right direction for the rest of the date. 

Remember to remind your client of the etiquette of elite escort bookings to keep your encounter enjoyable for all. 

Managing a Drunk Client During a Booking

1. Keep the Atmosphere Light but Professional

• Many drunk clients aren’t aggressive—they’re just overly chatty, excitable, or sloppy.
• Redirect their energy by engaging in light flirting, humour, or a fun conversation.
• Control the pace: If they’re drinking too much, subtly encourage them to slow down by suggesting food or water.

2. Stay in Control Physically and Emotionally

• Avoid matching their drinking—if they offer, politely decline or sip slowly.
• Maintain control of your space—a drunk client may be more touchy. Firm statements like “that makes me uncomfortable” work best.
• If they become overly pushy, reinforce boundaries calmly and confidently.

How to Exit an Unsafe Situation

If a client becomes aggressive, threatening, or refuses to respect your boundaries, it’s time to leave.

• Exit professionally: Example: “I think you’ve had a bit too much tonight. Let’s call it a night, and we can reschedule when you’re feeling more like yourself.”
• Prioritise your safety: If you feel physically threatened, end the booking immediately and remove yourself from the situation.
• Contact Kings Lover: We are here to support you in any difficult situation.

Knowing that you have a trusted contact, reliable way of communicating and transport to leave the date can help you feel more at ease. Ensuring this is set up before your booking will put your mind at rest. 

One of our London escorts, Holly advises "The moment he ignores a firm ‘no,’ that’s your cue to leave. You’re here for a good time, not a hostage situation."

Your safety is our top priority. Always trust your instincts and reach out for support when needed.

Preventing Issues Before They Happen

• Pre-screen clients: If a client has a history of being difficult or excessively drunk, Kings Lover can flag this for future bookings.
• Set alcohol limits upfront: Some escorts choose to discuss drinking expectations before a booking to prevent issues.
• Have an exit strategy: Know how you’ll leave if needed before the situation arises.

Gianna, an escort in Dubai, had this advice to share:"Setting drink limits isn’t ‘boring’—it’s self-preservation and avoiding a night of dodging sloppy kisses.” 

Kings Lover is here to ensure every booking is safe, respectful, and enjoyable. If you ever feel uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to let us know.

Stay Professional, Stay Safe, Stay in Control

Drunk clients are a reality of the industry, but they don’t have to be a problem. By recognising warning signs, setting boundaries, and knowing when to leave, you can handle these situations with confidence.

Kings Lover is always here to support, advise, and protect our escorts. Your safety and well-being come first, always.

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If you want to learn more, explore our tips for becoming an elite escort and read our interview with one of our £1000/h escorts.