Attending a high-profile event as an elite escort can be quite the experience. If you're new to this side of the industry, it's natural to feel a little nervous. What’s expected of you? How do you act? Should you be flirty, professional, mysterious?
This guide is here to give you a clear understanding of what to expect when accompanying a client to a luxury event — whether it's an elegant dinner or a champagne-fuelled launch party. Read on for helpful tips and honest advice from experienced escorts who’ve been there.
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This is one of the first things you'll wonder as soon as you walk into a room full of strangers. The short answer is: you stay close — unless told otherwise. High-end clients often want to feel accompanied, admired, and supported. You're there to make them look and feel like the most interesting man in the room. But that doesn’t mean you have to cling to their side.
Keep calm but engaged. Pay attention to his cues. If he seems happy for you to chat with someone else, go for it — but check back in with him regularly. Being present and attentive matters more than anything.
“At one private event, my client told me to ‘go charm the room’ and introduce myself around, but at another he wanted me right by his side all night. Every client is different — so I always ask before we arrive. It clears up everything.” – Chanelle, 25, Canary Wharf
Chanelle, pictured above, has attended her fair share of exclusive events. Visit her profile to learn more about her.
This is one of the most common concerns new escorts have — and for good reason. You’ll likely be introduced to clients, colleagues, or friends who don’t know who you really are. And they might ask what you do, how you met, or why you’re there. It’s essential to have a clean, comfortable answer ready.
Keep it simple and believable. Something vague like “I work in marketing” or “I do freelance consulting” is usually enough. It’s also helpful to avoid stories that require complex timelines or technical knowledge. Most people don’t dig too deep — and even if they do, a confident smile and a few vague details go a long way. Just remember to discuss this with your client beforehand, so you can both keep track of the cover story.
If, however, the client wishes for you to use a backstory of his own making, read on. We cover this in the next section...
“I always use the same story: I work remotely in branding and met him through friends at a dinner party. It’s easy for both me and the client to remember, and nobody’s ever questioned it. Say it like you’ve said it a hundred times, and I guarantee that no-one will question you about it. If he or she does, give them a vague response, and then follow up with a question that will direct their attention elsewhere.” – Luciana, 30, Gloucester Road
This should always be discussed beforehand. Some clients will brief you straight away — they’ll tell you what to say, how to act, and who’s going to be there. Others won’t think about it unless you bring it up. And you definitely should.
About an hour before the booking (or earlier, if possible), ask something like: “Just so I’m prepared — what shall I say if anyone asks how we met or what I do?” This shows professionalism and saves you both from awkward moments later. The two of you just have to make sure the story is short, believable, and easy to repeat. If you’re playing the role of girlfriend, keep the timeline vague (“We met at a gallery opening last year”) and avoid overexplaining.
“I once didn’t ask, and at the event someone said, ‘Oh, how do you two know each other?’ and I just froze. Luckily, my client jumped in and just told her we met sometime last week at a similair event. After that, I’ve always made sure we’ve got a story sorted. Some guys appreciate you taking the lead with it too — especially if they’re nervous.” – Lucia, 29, Dubai
Lucia, pictured above, is based in Dubai and has attended many events across the city. Visit her profile to learn more about her, or browse our full Dubai escorts gallery to see who else works in the area.
This depends heavily on the venue, but the safest bet is to dress like a wealthy man's girlfriend. Looking polished, sexy, and tasteful is all that matters. A fitted cocktail dress, designer heels, a sleek clutch, and delicate jewellery will serve you well at almost any formal event.
If it's black-tie, bring your most elegant gown. If it's a daytime function or gallery launch, you can dress down slightly, but still aim for that elevated, chic look. Also consider the weather, walking distance, and how long you’ll be on your feet. Nothing kills the mood quicker than painful shoes or a dress you have to keep pulling up all night.
Above is Anastasia Doll (one of our popular celebrity companions) wearing three of her go-to looks — from beachside chic to classic cleavage. Whether it’s a yacht party, gallery launch, or formal dinner, she knows how to dress for the occasion while still showing off her curves in all the right ways.
Want more of Anastasia? Visit her profile to explore her stunning gallery and see why she turns heads at every event. Curious who else made our VIP list? Browse our full gallery of celebrity escorts and discover the stars of Kings Lover.
You can — but you definitely don’t have to. Escorting at events is still work, and being too tipsy can make things messy fast. If you do drink, keep it light, controlled, and classy. One or two glasses of wine or champagne are usually more than enough.
“I like to keep a glass in hand — it makes me blend in — but I rarely finish my second drink. If you say no to every drink it can stand out, but if you sip slowly you stay sharp and nobody notices you’re not really drinking. Besides, in this day and age, people rarely question it anyway.” – Skylah, 25, South Kensington
If the client is drinking heavily and wants you to join, you can either pace him politely or let him know you’re staying sharp for the night. Most high-end clients will respect that, and prefer a companion who remains graceful and in control.
To prepare yourself for the worst, read our helpful guide on how to deal with drunk clients.
Photos with your client? No, not unless he gives you explicit permission — and even then, tread carefully.
High-end events are often filled with people who value privacy above everything else. One Instagram story, even if it’s just of the venue, can get you blacklisted fast. If you love sharing your looks online (which many escorts do), take your selfies before you leave the house, or take some which don't include your client or other guests, and save posting them until well after the event, with no location tags or time references.
“I do like to take a photo of my outfit in the ladies’ room mirror, or of myself enjoying a drink at the event. I may even ask the client tot ake it for me. But I would never, ever dream of taking a picture of me with said client. These men pay for discretion, and even the smallest thing can feel like a breach.” – Skylah, 25, South Kensington
Skylah, pictured above, is one of our most glamorous companions and certainly takes pride in her appearance. Visit her profile to see more of her pictures.
First impressions matter — and that includes punctuality. Always confirm where you’re meeting the client: are you arriving together, meeting at the venue, or joining him at his hotel first?
Most escorts prefer to book their own travel and arrive independently, especially for public events. It gives you time to get comfortable, mentally prepare, and keep your own schedule in check. Most of the time, however, the client wishes to be the one to escort you. You may even get a luxurious limo ride out of it. Just make sure you turn up on time! And one more tip: make sure your phone is charged and your Uber app works. You never know when you might need it.
“I always arrive ten minutes early and wait around the corner if I need to. You never want to be late. And I keep extra heels and safety pins in my bag — just in case. Events can be very hectic sometimes... not always, but it helps to be ready for anything.” – Fernanda, 26, Kensington
Even at glamorous events, your safety and comfort come first. If something feels off — the client is acting out, someone crosses a line, or you’re just not okay — it’s always acceptable to leave.
If you’re with an agency, call them discreetly and explain what’s happening. Most professional agencies will support your decision, protect your reputation, and make sure you're looked after. If, however, you’re independent, plan an exit strategy ahead of time: have a safe contact on standby and trust your instincts. You are not obligated to stay if you’re being disrespected, touched without consent, or treated in a way that makes you feel unsafe. Ever.
They absolutely can — if you leave the right impression. Many escorts say their best long-term clients came from one standout evening at an event. When a man sees you handle yourself with poise, charm, and discretion, it builds trust — and often leads to regular work, travel bookings, or exclusive arrangements.
That said, never go into an event expecting a long-term setup. Do your best, be present, and treat it like a one-time moment to shine. What follows is up to them, and how you made them feel.
“My first event booking turned into a monthly dinner arrangement, and eventually I was flying abroad with him to Dubai. I think it was the way I handled conversations — I wasn’t loud or flirty with everyone, just calm and classy. That’s what stuck.” – Ivy, 29, Battersea
Ivy, pictured above, has made quite an impression on her clients. In fact, she even made it onto our list of the top 5 most popular blonde escorts! To learn more about this favoured model, visit her profile.
Attending a luxury event as an escort isn’t just about showing up and looking good — it’s about reading the room, protecting your boundaries, and knowing how to make the night smooth, elegant, and unforgettable. With a little preparation and a lot of self-awareness, these bookings can be some of the most rewarding you’ll ever take.
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